We all know women who have been abused physically, mentally and emotionally. We come across them on a daily basis. We think she is okay if she acts fine but there is a dark past in her life which haunts her every night before she goes to bed. She has to cry herself to sleep. Some were physically abused. Some had violent parents. Some had messed up love stories. Some had been drugged. Some were date raped. Some had menstrual problems. Some had an obesity issue. Some had a divorce. Some had unsuccessful suicide attempts. Some had sexual abuse from her own family members.
We all know these women who went through this and some who are still suffering. It can be your own sister, your own mother, your own wife, your own friend or your own girlfriend. One of my best friends was sexually abused by her own family member and when I see her, I get amazed by how she has carried herself all these years. How she didn’t even tell her family members just because they will get hurt. She didn’t even think about her sufferings. She is so selfless and amazing and deserves all the respect in the world. She inspires me to be thankful for what I have and to never give up no matter what.
So if you know these women, give them love as much as you can because you can’t understand how much effort it takes to pull yourself together and move on with all your sorrows. She has thoughts of killing herself, she doubts her existence every day because of our society who can’t accept her just because she has been abused. People don’t understand that nobody wants to get abused, it is not their personal choice so why are you judging them? Why can’t you just love the person like you love others? They are no different from others. Do not confront her. Do not stab her with her past. Give her love and respect. Do not judge her for her past, instead help her move on with life and show her the way to live her life peacefully.
In a world where everybody knows how to judge, give her the love she always craved for.